{"id":226,"date":"2021-01-07T22:28:35","date_gmt":"2021-01-07T22:28:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/asmymindunwinds.com\/?p=226"},"modified":"2021-01-28T19:33:02","modified_gmt":"2021-01-28T19:33:02","slug":"when-resolutions-become-goals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asmymindunwinds.com\/?p=226","title":{"rendered":"When Resolutions Become Goals"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>**Guest post by Brittany Bowers** Brittany is a co-laborer with me at The Grove Church<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>A couple years ago I changed my perspective from resolutions to goals with the objective of creating new habits<\/strong>. Sure, maybe it\u2019s the same thing? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/tc2\/2\/16\/1f937_200d_2640.png\" alt=\"\ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2640\ufe0f\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p> But the approach and ultimate objective are different. Instead of \u201cI will follow my daily reading plan and read the Bible each and every day to finish the Bible in one year.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t1f\/2\/16\/27a1.png\" alt=\"\u27a1\ufe0f\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p> I could say \u201cMy goal is to read the entire Bible this year, at my own pace. To create a habit of regularly being in Gods word.\u201d This second way allowed me to not feel failure by day 5. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t2b\/2\/16\/1f389.png\" alt=\"\ud83c\udf89\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p> It gave me a mindset of creating a lifelong habit over months, not just a pass or fail outcome. I did read my entire Bible that year and now I\u2019ve completed that goal for 2 years in a row. The objective is to make goals that create habits. Last year I set a goal to read more. But it was about creating a habit of regular reading again. Goal accomplished! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/tb4\/2\/16\/2705.png\" alt=\"\u2705\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>So, for 2021 here is my new goal. A habit I want to form. Not perfection each day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/tc\/2\/16\/1f973.png\" alt=\"\ud83e\udd73\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p> 2021 goal: This year I want to KNOW my Bible. I want to memorize scripture. I want to study in new ways that open my eyes and challenge me. I want to have scriptures on the tip of my tongue and written in my heart. I also want to help my boys memorize scripture and begin to know and love the Bible in deeper ways. This inspiration has been slowly building up within me. I\u2019ve watched a friend from college, Sheila share her journey of growing in her faith and discipling (and homeschooling) her 5 girls! She shared a story recently about how her inconsistent consistencies of Bible learning and teaching have cultivated a love of Christ and Bible knowledge in her home. Making a goal is great, but it won\u2019t happen without some intentional planning. This is the part I\u2019ve been working on and processing these past few weeks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/te9\/2\/16\/1f447_1f3fb.png\" alt=\"\ud83d\udc47\ud83c\udffb\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t1c\/2\/16\/1f7e3.png\" alt=\"\ud83d\udfe3\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p> WHY is this goal important?: The Bible is my foundation. I must know it well. Biblical truths should guide me daily. I want my kids to have the Bible as their foundation. Never before has it been more clear to me that I want and need the Bible, the words of Jesus to be the loudest voice in my life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t1c\/2\/16\/1f7e3.png\" alt=\"\ud83d\udfe3\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p> WHEN will I spend intentional time?: During the boys show time and around the table with them in addition to bedtime. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t1c\/2\/16\/1f7e3.png\" alt=\"\ud83d\udfe3\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p> WHAT do I want\/need?: For me that was purchasing some Bible studies and scripture cards for myself. Also some kids Bible tools from Daily Grace Co. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t1c\/2\/16\/1f7e3.png\" alt=\"\ud83d\udfe3\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p> WHAT will give to make this a priority?: I will spend less time on my phone. I\u2019ll set limits and adhere to them. I will set my to-do list aside for later. There are bound to be days I miss, because of the realities of life. My goal is to increase my time. My goal is to increase Bible learning time with my kids around the table. If we increase from 0 days to 3 days around the table then I am succeeding. If I memorize 5, 10 or 20 more scriptures this year than I did before, I\u2019m succeeding. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t2b\/2\/16\/1f389.png\" alt=\"\ud83c\udf89\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t1f\/2\/16\/1f64f.png\" alt=\"\ud83d\ude4f\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p> I\u2019m praying that God will meet me and my kids right where we\u2019re at in the messiness of everyday life. That he\u2019ll show us his greatest gift in new ways. That our heartbeat will be stronger for Him. That our passion for Him will be shared with and evident to others. This is my prayer for 2021. Maybe you\u2019ve given up resolutions, too? There are so many great ways to reflect and make intentional plans for your life. Any time you take to reflect and plan is worth it! Maybe you want a word for the year. Maybe a bucket list. Maybe goals for the next 5 years. Maybe 1 small goal each month. Maybe just one thing you can do today. So many great options!I know many who are grieving or in survival mode and this might not be the day, week or month to make a goal. I truly believe it\u2019s a constant process of reflection. If this is you right now, please know you\u2019re in my prayers. I pray that God will meet you right where you\u2019re at. 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